http://bycommonconsent.com/2011/04/12/reframing-parental-roles-in-the-proclamation-on-the-family/#comment-220269

http://squaretwo.org/Sq2ArticleClarkFaithandFamily.html

http://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-coo-sandberg-the-women-of-my-generation-blew-it-so-equality-is-up-to-you-graduates-2011-5?goback=.gde_1286697_member_55072609

Equally Shared Parenting

http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2009/10/pdf/awn/a_womans_nation.pdf

http://preventdisease.com/news/11/060211_toxic_overload_puberty.shtml

Finding Faith: Sandra Steigngraber

When the Bough Breaks:

http://campaign.r20.constantcontact.com/render?llr=a5nrjecab&v=001rBBS2uM5H3-5Vj149b0DT8k7pZ5sKbUrzgOe74p6Now7ZaTb7bWNUAT72pCQvJfkOJAbfsMHOXDwvxxU_SchfYYVEekYd_5u9qSm4-dOq_xU7mSy5dY2Nh59xVbdcppq1N9SzBbruqwOOffpnGXgHfUPGFI4ozHZDLPxNDWuIgJlr79wWS_DOodV4L8x3A9HIssxCAjRebLWi0gqD6SSHuP_OZlJbK5Na6_RwKA6TM6j8BDdhW8dkuMs1ROjV1Y_gjf-fiQBCtlYqOLeD0023JdSQ3iufdYfrFhRFrNogrQcAkdghY2hKQjU8Wv1lqaiwUKa3t9g05iJE7CtmptX9nTSHyk3TK9X97YD8Ls-lvr-0RNzub1ebGp_8809ZOng-Ilnahg16H0%3D#LETTER.BLOCK3

http://newsreel.org/when-the-bough-breaks.html

Birth by the numbers: http://www.lamaze.org/OnlineCommunity/LamazeVideoLibrary/LamazeVideoPlayer/TabId/808/VideoId/4/Birth-By-The-Numbers.aspx

Crisis in the Crib:

http://minorityhealth.hhs.gov/templates/content.aspx?ID=8142&lvl=2&lvlID

http://www.theunnecesarean.com/blog/2010/6/22/the-lessons-of-the-boondock-saints-and-tanya-lewis-lee.html

In it he highlights the statistical changes we are seeing in men’s accomplishments in a society post civil rights and second-wave feminism. He is not knocking feminists when he said, “In their zeal to promote opportunity for women, something we applaud, there are those who denigrate men and their contributions.” It appears that he is calling for caution, however. Feminism is not about the degradation of men but achieving equal respect and opportunity for both genders. There are those feminists who work for female supremacy but there are a small minority that the vast majority disagree with.

http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/brethren-we-have-work-to-do?lang=eng

http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2012/12/white-men-are-not-in-decline/266521/

It is arguable whether the role of government is to set an example for social responsibility for the underserved and underprivileged. It certainly seems that this is the crux of the issue when it comes to partisan politics in the United States. Unfortunately as the political parties debate what responsibility the government plays, the needs of the poor go unmet and unaddressed.

The Christian mandate to care for the poor and the needy exists in spite of the argument and most churches have some sort of humanitarian program

Two concepts guide my political decision-making: agency and compassion. Does it relieve or contribute to the suffering of a demographic? Depending on the answer, you’ll know where my sentiments will fall. Does it interfere with the freedom to make thoughtful decisions for one’s self? You’ll have the answer.

Because of these guiding principles, Mormon to their core, I have a difficult timing choosing a political party. It is for this reason that I maintain my independent status and vote according to my conscience. So often however, these concepts, though they may be at stake, are not central to the debates

What do we do when we’re mad? We Sing! And we dance!
http://onebillionrising.org/

In response to the WAVE Women’s Service Mission post PSA Campaigns for Men, Modern Mormon Men and WAVE got together for a collaboration.

The LDS community has its own peculiar flavor of rape culture, bolstered by modesty rhetoric taught by church leaders which can run the risk of young people assuming that how a young woman is dressed can lead to sexual assault. You may remember the story coming out of BYU where a male student scolded a female student for what she was wearing on campus. Now, thanks to Modern Mormon Men and Scott Heff, there’s an meme for that!

This series of memes emphasize that “no matter what a woman is wearing, males have the responsibility to control their thoughts, words and actions.”

These memes are now available to be uploaded and shared on facebook, twitter and pinterest (maybe even used in youth lessons??) so that this message can be promoted within the LDS community. For links to other PSAs and memes, see the WAVE Women’s Service Mission post.

Inspired by these memes? Why not make your own? Submit your Mormon modesty memes to service@ldswave.org.

With breastfeeding in the Mormon spotlight this last week with the following newscoverage, the topic of breastfeeding in the Mormon culture has taken off.

Fox 13 News: Breastfeeing in LDS Church creates controversy

Salt Lake Tribune, Peggy Fletcher Stack: Battles break-out over breastfeeding at Mormon meetings

Salt Lake Tribune, Robert Kirby: Find breast-feeding in church scandalous? Get over it. 

Like this post from Katherine Anderson shows, breastfeeding support is a women’s health concern that requires public policies to support and protect the future health of both mother and baby.

Utah lactivist and mother of three, Katherine Anderson authored the following article in the name of mothers and their children worldwide. This post is crossposted from Latter-day Lactivism. 

In my years as a mother, I have seen quite a bit of the lactivist movement. I have a daughter that nursed until she was four, and a pair of twin boys that are still exclusively nursing. I have nursed them proudly, as a woman called to motherhood. I accepted that calling despite being a young woman with little resources.

To be a mother is the greatest gift God has ever given me. I struggled with secondary infertility, and to be able to trust in my body to provide my children with the milk that is their birthright has healed my soul after two miscarriages.

Something that I have found troubling for some time is how much responsibility we ask of a nursing mother. She must educate herself so that she understands how it is done, as few women ever see the mother and baby nursing dyad. She must make sure her care providers do the best they can to support the baby latching in the first hour after birth, when the newborn is most alert and responsive. She must ensure that the pediatrician she entrusts with her child’s health and well-being is dedicated and knowledgeable in clinical lactation management. She must resist the pressure to use formula- the ads, the free samples, the hospital provided bags of gifts and booklets and diaper bags, full of their particular brand–all of which claim to provide the best to the mother’s milk (next to breastmilk, of course–in fine print).

To ask this of a woman who has just borne a child is unconscionable. Society should support breastfeeding as a parenting choice equal to that of formula feeding. While there is an undeniable increase of health risks associated with baby milk substitutes as chemical substances, there should be no such comparison between how or what a mother chooses to feed her children. There are many valid reasons why mothers choose to formula feed, and very few of them choose to refuse to try. Many want to very much. They reach out for help, and with a few exceptions, they get nothing but discouragement and admonishment that it’s too hard and to stop trying to be perfect.

It troubles me because in many movements for better support for women, of which lactivism is but a small part, we make it the mother’s job. Something she has to fight for. Somehow, it’s HER job to make sure she has a doctor who is supportive of breastfeeding- not the doctor to educate himself. It’s HER job to make sure the medication is safe for breastfeeding or not- not the doctor’s, or the pharmacist’s, or the drug companies’ to do the research so that mothers can access the medication they need. It’s HER job to argue with insurance over whether or not they cover breastpumps and lactation consultants- not their job to provide her with them in order to minimize the risk of illness. It’s HER job to risk her job fighting for her right to pump- not her employer to follow the law.
It’s HER job to stand up to people who try to infringe on her right to nurse in public- not the public’s job to accept women and children.

It’s dishonest to say that everyone can do it in the face of that kind of opposition, and to put all of the responsibility and blame on the mother for not trying hard enough without trying to change the obstacles that are in place against it at every single turn.

There are so many women who want to breastfeed, without having been duped, guilted, or manipulated into doing so, and they face enormous difficulties. That they have failed is not a personal flaw. It is impossible for many women to try any harder and that is no reason for guilt, shame, or judgement.

They deserve the things that all people deserve from the medical community- to have the most current knowledge, the most current research, and the most comprehensive support possible in order to meet their goals successfully. They deserve evidence-based care and they deserve good medical treatment and good medical advice. They deserve respect and validation. Advancing that is not anti-feminist. It is not anti-woman. It is not trying to place restrictions on what women do with their bodies- it gives them the best possible chance of getting to do what they want to with their bodies and their babies and their breasts.

If society as a whole had their way, no one would breastfeed, no one would nurse in public, no one would hold nurse-ins or speak up about lactivism. We’d all just shut up and keep our heads down and follow the status quo, which is to put in a token effort to breastfeed. That is all society deems necessary, and then gives up on women and conclude our bodies are broken. No one would talk about how bad pediatric care in this country is and why we’re so higher than other countries in infant mortality. Not to mention the fact American Academy of Pediatrics is so deep in bed with formula companies, or that we’re the only country in the Western world without paid maternal leave.

But no one wants to hear that, because it would mean we’re doing something wrong, and that we need to change things. And nobody but nobody likes change.

Get over it.

Katherine Anderson is the mother of three children, a birth and breastfeeding counselor, and aspiring IBCLC. Passionate about women, children, and other endeavors, she enjoys writing, horseback riding, and dedicating her talents to support mothers in the community.

She is currently available by email for breastfeeding or birth related consultations. To contact, please email naturalbeginningsutah@gmail.com

For more information on the importance of human milk for human babies:
Utah Breastfeeding Coalition
United States Breastfeeding Committee
Stop Nestlé